My grandma cries every time my family goes on vacation.
She knows she’s getting old and there’s always a small chance she may never see us again. As my grandma approaches her 90th birthday quarantined in her retirement home, I cannot imagine the sadness and isolation she feels.
I spent a lot of time...
Family dinners at my household have always been filled with vibrant conversation. Growing up, popular topics included what my brother and I learned at school, complaints about workdays, and drama surrounding social lives. But when I moved home this spring at the beginning of the pandemic and family...
As COVID-19 continues to rock old-age homes, it’s time we roll back the clock and re-evaluate the value—and potential inevitability—of the multigenerational family.
In Dr. Atul Gawande’s Being Mortal, he writes, “Modernization did not demote the elderly. It demoted the family.” Now, he might say...
University usually marks the first time that teens move away from their home and their parents, and when they really start developing into independent young adults. This might especially be true at Queen’s, with 95 per cent of its student population originating outside Kingston and from over 100 countries.
It’s...
I will never meet my grandfather. His death in 1978 makes that impossible. But I would be grossly mistaken—and I was—to think that means I’d never have a relationship with him.
When I was growing up my dad often read to me and my sister. I remember how the three of us fit snugly in his scratchy grey...
When students returned to Queen’s for the new school year, everyone fell back into familiar Kingston routines. But while they did so, it’s certain everyone also entered into some kind of long-distance relationship.
With friends studying at post-secondary institutions scattered across the globe...
As I approach the end of my university degree, I’m constantly filled with a huge sense of accomplishment.
“In two months, I’ll be a university graduate,” I obnoxiously tell myself at least once a week.
In my head, the piece of paper I’ll hold in about two months signifying my graduation will be something...
When I stepped onto my first university campus in 2016, my family came with me and never truly left.
Seated in our beat-down pick-up truck, my hopeful mother and father shared my confusion navigating Queen’s on move-in day as we searched for West Campus.
Moving my luggage into the top floor of the...
For three and a half years, I’ve watched my little brother miss out on high school friendships, relationships, and work opportunities, all due to a crippling and life-threatening illness.
In the summer of 2015, I was getting ready to move hundreds of miles away from Detroit for my first year at Queen’s...
Every holiday season, thousands of eager Canadians swarm downtown Toronto to witness the unique Christmastime magic that is The National Ballet of Canada’s production of The Nutcracker. Also every holiday season, I begrudgingly drag myself to the Four Seasons Theatre’s orchestra section and wait for...
It’s unforgivable that legal early abortions are often inaccessible to Canadians living outside major cities.
Often, an abortion is a difficult choice, for reasons ranging from financial constraints to knowledge of available resources.
The Globe and Mail’s Atlantic bureau chief, Jessica Leeder,...
Sixty-six years following his graduation from Queen’s, John Greenberg, Sci ’49, rejoined his family and friends for a Homecoming to remember.
Originally from Ottawa, Greenberg came to Queen’s to study mechanical engineering. When he arrived, computers were in their infancy and the modern ballpoint...
Part I: Coast to coast: the last father-son road trip
Picking up from where I left off in last week’s issue, my dad and I left Oklahoma City behind and headed deep into the south, a part of the country that I quickly realized was a bull of a different colour.
Dealey Plaza in Dallas is the site of...
After spending several months away from home during the school year, the prospect of living under the same roof as mom and dad for the summer can seem nightmarish to some. Add to that the promise of family vacations – where tensions often erupt and boredom can take hold – and you might be considering...
Two Winnipeg foster parents will soon learn whether or not they can continue caring for the child who has been with them for two years.
Because the child in question is Métis and the parents are Filipino, the Métis Child and Family Services Authority has attempted to block the adoption in favour of...
When Annie Riel’s husband returned from his deployment to Afghanistan last year, something had changed.
“He was so calm. The roof could have fallen down and his heartbeat wouldn’t have raced. Nothing was stressful,” Riel, PhD ’14 said.
This was a big change for the mother of two, who had been away...
Canadian musician Matthew Good last came to Kingston in 2009. The guitarist and vocalist said the biggest change in his life has occurred at home, with his second marriage and the birth of his son.
“Kids, family, the rest of it,” Good said. “Just trying to find that balance between music and home...