For many students at Queen’s, the past few days have been a whirlwind of packing, moving, and self-isolating in the wake of Canada’s growing COVID-19 pandemic. But when the dust settles, and you find yourself at home with nothing to do and a growing sense of loneliness, are you really going to stop...
As this chapter of my life comes to an end upon graduation, I can’t help but looking back on the important memories I’ve made.
Of all the lessons I’ve learned in the last four years — both inside and outside of the classroom — some of the most notable ones have come from what I’ve learned about sex...
There are many subjects that are considered taboo in terms of what we should share with our significant others. However, talking about things that might be slightly uncomfortable may actually work towards strengthening the trust and communication we have in a relationship.
When we begin a relationship...
The issue of sexual disempowerment is a huge problem many women face almost everywhere in the world.
I’m a fairly open person and have no trouble speaking candidly about my sexuality. However, as a woman, I’m still faced with fears and issues regarding my sexual freedom.
Women face many threats to...
In honor of the show that inspired the title of this very column — Sex and the City — I’ve decided to center this week’s column around the men in the show and how their relationships with protagonist Carrie are actually very similar to the ones many of us experience in everyday life.
Throughout...
Growing up, I was raised in a Catholic home and attended Catholic school for both my elementary and high school careers.
Overall, I’d say I received an excellent education, allowing me to gain entry into Queen’s and excel in my program. However, there was one major gap in knowledge that attending...
Living with roommates in residence is definitely something that can hinder your sex life. In my first year at Queen’s, I was assigned to a quad room with very little privacy.
Seriously, I could swing an arm and hit my roommate’s bed beside me. To make matters worse, it’s very common in first year...
Q: Recently, a friend told me that they think they may have been sexually assaulted. I had no idea what to say. What is the best thing to do when this happens?
A: Excellent question. When someone discloses a sexual assault, it can be very difficult to know how to respond. But there’s system that can...
Whether it’s with a partner or flying solo, anal sex is for anyone who wants to try it.
Anal play can include any type of stimulation of the anus and isn’t limited to anal penetration.
The most important things to keep in mind about trying anal sex are to start slow, lubricate, relax and communicate....
If you menstruate or have sex with someone who does, listen up.
The SHRC used to play an instructive game in residences about healthy relationships called “Steps to Intimacy”.
We included several potential milestones in relationships, such as adding each other on Facebook, meeting friends, kissing...
If you have a burning question about sex, sexuality, sexual health or anything else the SHRC covers, drop us an anonymous line and have your question answered by The Expert Sexpert in the QJ Sex column. Click here to submit a question.Q: Where can I get a prescription for birth control in Kingston?
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If you have a burning question about sex, sexuality, sexual health, or anything else the SHRC covers, drop us an anonymous line and have your question answered by The Expert Sexpert in the QJ Sex column. Click here to submit a question.
Dear expert sexpert,
Lately there’s been a lot happening in...
Four male students from North Carolina State University recently made news headlines with their invention of a nail polish that can detect a number of drugs commonly used for date rape.
The polish changes colour after being submerged in a drink where such drugs are present, thus alerting the wearer...
Looking for sex advice? One of the best-kept secrets of Queen’s is the Sexual Health Resource Centre, better known as the SHRC.
While the SHRC may be known for teach-ins and the dancing condom suit, we also have a wide variety of services which are often overlooked.
The SHRC is a confidential, non-judgmental,...